Sunday, September 14, 2008

What a Big Week!

On Wednesday, Asa went all day without his pacifier and I decided that if he didn't ask for it at bedtime, I wouldn't offer. He didn't ask. I didn't offer. He went the whole next day without it and then right before bedtime on Thursday, he said, "Where's my paci?" Kevin picked him up and distracted him for a few minutes and then he was off to bed without it and he hasn't asked for it since. So for the first time in 12 years, we are paci-free! Amazing!

Also on Wednesday afternoon, Anna-Kate asked me if she could get her ears pierced. Kevin and I had decided long ago, that when she was old enough to ask about it, we'd discuss it then. Well, she did ask a few years ago, but she didn't pursue it, so we let it go. But this week, after 2 days of persistent asking from her, Kev & I sat down with her and talked to her about the pros and cons and we stressed to her that it would hurt, possibly alot. She was not discouraged in the least. Therefore, we told her that she could. So on Friday afternoon, we headed to the mall and she got her ears pierced. I was very proud of how well she did. Kevin and I were both holding back tears, but she didn't shed even one. (Aunt Mar took pictures, but I haven't downloaded them yet. They're forthcoming.) The earrings she chose were/are very pretty and she looks so beautiful and well, grown up. How did that happen so fast?

Then tonight, I was praying with Anna-Kate when the boys got out of the shower. I heard Austin take Asa into my bedroom where Ace would wait for me to put his diaper and pajamas on him. As soon as Anna-Kate said, "Amen", I kissed her and told her I needed to go help Asa get dressed. When I got into my room, Austin was finishing up with Asa's diaper. I couldn't believe my eyes. Austin had put Asa's diaper on him. I told him how proud I was of him and that now I could count on his help in the diaper changing department. He did not like that idea and told me to forget I had ever seen him do it. Of course I told him I was only kidding, but it was a fun moment for me to see him helping me without being asked.

Ahhh (sigh). . .what a good day. God is good.

5 comments:

Kierstyn said...

As Curtis and I have begun to think about the possibility of MAYBE (and maybe never.... don't get your hopes up) adding another child to our family, I have been thinking a lot about the phases of parenting. For our entire parenting career, we have been in the family growing phase. As all phases, there are pros and cons. As I think about being done with this phase, I get a little sad. Then I look at your family. And I see that even though we might be done with the family growing phase, there are many other treasures for us to look forward too.

Your family encourages and blesses me!

I love you, Hannah!

Christi said...

I love the stories about your children, they are so wonderful! I'm not looking forward to the day Alexis wants to get her ears pierced, I agree, that makes them very grown up. I'm glad Anna Kate did such a good job with it. And way to go Asa on being paci free! That's a huge step. I'm glad you are posting again, I love to read what you write.

Praying for you always!

ninepoundhammer said...

So, let see: That means that Austin has changed one more diaper than Kevin! ;)

Anonymous said...

So glad to have you back! I was pleasantly surprised to see fresh thoughts from you this morning. It's so fun to record those precious milestones so they won't be lost forever in collective mommy memory.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry you're sick! Hope you get well soon. Missed you today.